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What year-old men want in bed is significantly different than what men in their 20s or 30s want. By their 50s, older men have found what. According to the rule, for example, a year-old should be with a partner who is at least 22, while a year-old's dating partner must be at least 32 to not attract. 50 year old guy, 30 year old girl. So, to set the scene, I'm a 30 year old woman. Dating this guy seriously would mean just that. Should be a.
This happens alot to people, especially women. If you had spent time with a single, kid free, but eventually wanting kids 33 year old guy via volunteering, you'd be getting to know that 33 year old single cool fun interesting sweet guy and finding him to be pretty awesome.
You have been spending your time with someone who is not a candidate for you to date. That needs to stop. You need to explore other avenues of volunteering or dating or meetups or whatever, to meet guys in your age range that could be possible dating prospects for you.
I am very glad you are enjoying being single, that's awesome, and very important. But all things being equal, if you are going to spend time with someone of the opposite gender, try to let it be someone you could eventually date and have a long term relationship with.
Because, the thing about spending time with someone is, women tend to fall for the guy. It's called Oxytocin, its a chemical released in the brain that causes women to bond to men and babies. Google it, it's legit. I have read alot about it here on Love Shack, and elsewhere. Hormones and chemicals in the brain can make us very confused, and fall for someone that logically, we know is just a waste of time for us. And then once you become attached, it hurts to let go, and you end up spending years with this person who wasn't a good fit for you.
I did that for 16 years in a marriage with my ex-husband. Don't fall into that trap with this guy. He is probably a great guy.
But, he's too old for you, and doesn't want kids. Plus, he has 3 kids already, and you would have to deal with them and his ex-wife.
Odds are, a huge pain in the ass in the long run. He loves kids, but doesn't burden you with his own. Most men in their 50s including myself have older children who are either in high school, college, or out in the working world. Because our kids are older, then, we aren't asking you to help us raise our kids.
With that said, when it comes to kids, 50s Men understand, on a deep, fundamental level if they are worth a damn, that isthat kids come before everything else in life, including ourselves.
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Most guys in their 50s, that I know, love kids. I didn't think so. He makes date plans, and sticks to them. How many times have you waited by your smartphone to get a text on where, and when, you were going on a date with a guy? That almost never happens with a guy in his 50s and if it does, run away! His work schedule is usually full, so he doesn't have time to constantly shift around the time and date of his dates. He wants something to look forward to, and when to look forward to it.
He doesn't play by the grass is always greener set of rules by floating three or more tentative dates to wait until the very last minute before deciding which is the best one to take. Do you know why? He's got gray hair see Reason 2 above. Sure our knees creak a little more, and are backs are a tad stiffer, but if we take care of ourselves, which many of us do, we can be in just as good a shape as our male underlings in their 30s and 40s.
Are we going to beat them in a straight-up Spartan Race, Cross Fit competition, or marathon? But can we look as good as they do when we finish the competition?
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Hell to the yes. If you have any doubts, take a moment and check out the Facebook page " Fit Guys Over Guys in their 50s have been in the workforce now for over 30 years.
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A year-old woman will have better luck messaging a year-old man than a year-old one, according to the data.
And a year-old man is more likely to respond to a message from a year-old woman than a message from any other age group. When women make the first move, the age gap dating norm is reversed. I asked my friend Trevor, a year-old mathematician, what he made of it. They have more interesting jobs and hobbies, and their profiles are just better… no stupid selfie-only profiles. Across all ages, straight women write shorter profiles than straight men.
And then there are those year-old women who really clean up with the year-old dudes. Cindy has been dating men in their 20s for the past 15 years.
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Working in tech, she sometimes feels she has more in common with somethings than older men. I have no desire to have a man telling how I should be conducting my life. But I have been on dates with guys some 10 years older, and my feelings are this: