could end up like this guy who tried to text his ex-girlfriend Michelle, but And now I'm pulling for these crazy kids to get back together even if. We all want someone to love and someone to love us, and "Ignored Red Flags" (last week's theme was "Kids Say The Wrongest Things"). No one ever questioned it, and he kept calling me crazy or would have When his mother and sister googled me and attempted to contact my abusive ex and other. Dating is hard, but most of us just keep doing it until we're married or dead. Over on Reddit, women revealed the red flags they see in men that let them Vanishplusxzone's guidance: if a guy has a ton of "crazy" exes, take a look at who's not you (his kid, sibling, parent, ex, friends, any service staff, etc).
Didn't stop working at the pool store after getting his PhD. He was burnt out on Physics and wanted to find something else to do. Never wanted to hang out with my college friends. He didn't feel like hanging out with intellectuals for fun because he didn't want to always be thinking about science I studied math and had a couple friends that went on to PhD studies in physics.
Couldn't produce his PhD or Masters diplomas. Got lost in the mail and he didn't want to pay for new ones. No one ever questioned it, and he kept calling me crazy or would have excuses when I'd have questions.
It only came out after I asked if I could do a background check on him; he had lost his job and couldn't find a new one for 3 months while I was paying for everything.
He told me to go for it and it showed nothing. He even tried to say it was a mistake but eventually came clean. What a waste of 2 years. Andrea emailed us this tale of a way-too-close-knit family. Red flag should have been when I walk in to him sitting on his parents bed talking to his mother while she is on the toilet with the door open. This was how they held family discussions.
When his mother and sister googled me and attempted to contact my abusive ex and other family members to get dirt on me so he would leave ME! Jen sent us an extremely short story that needs no explanation. Ate Chapstick to freshen his breath. This story, emailed in by an anonymous Someecards reader, is pretty much the textbook definition of "red flags.
I was introduced to a guy who went to the high school across town and he was instantly attracted to me. He was tall, handsome, on the football team I was so entrapped by the dreaminess of it all I didn't mind making out the first night we met. I thought it was some sweet romantic gesture that he wanted to be official that night. He forced me into laying down, despite my protests, started shoving his tongue in my mouth and saying he wanted to kiss me all over.
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He got super handsy and I kept pushing his hands off. When I finally got into an upright sitting position he told me, "You know, this is all perfect. I can see you being the future Mrs. I want to get married in He was telling me he wanted to get married, in a year, right after graduation!!
I tried to accept it as sweet teenage sentimentalism and romance Finally dumped his butt right before prom, and when he asked if he could still take me I said, "No I already asked someone else to go with me.
Way too clingy, like a psychopath. SO glad I got away from him and never gave in to the physical pressures he tried putting on me. You're so vain, I bet you think this email from "Bozone" is about you.
So many red flags, so little time! My boyfriend, who still believes we are going to get married but only if the Pope becomes Baptist,IMHO is a very good looking man who is very vain, especially of his hair.
He usually wears it in long curls, but sometimes he wears it in braids. A few days ago, he asked me to comb his hair, which I did, but not without him pissing and moaning about it. Later that day we got into an argument which ended with me telling him he needs to respect me more, to which he replied 'What do you mean I don't respect you? I let you comb my hair didn't I? Ayla emailed us a truly amazing story about the jerks you meet on reality TV millionaire dating shows.
Well, I was on a reality dating show flag 1 with supposed-to-be "millionaires. Flag 2 Anywho, we started dating exclusively after we filmed the show. Things seemed off because we never went to his "mansion" flag 3 and he said he sold his expensive car to help better his business flag 4.
Oh, and did I mention he told me he had been married but it was over 5 years before me. Then, 5 months into us dating before his divorce was final and after our episode aired, he said the network wanted us to be on the reunion show. By this time, he had confessed and I accepted the fact that he was as rich as I was Nice family but that was about it. But I lied for him to cover his tracks flag 6.
After he moved out of his Mom's 1-bedroom apartment, we went to film the reunion show where he, predictively, proposed to me!! I said yes to keep it all going but knew in my heart that he was not the one. The straw that really broke the camel's back was his Facebook letters with strangers saying that he'd love for them to come to LA so they could hook up I threw the ring at him and went on with my life.
The network even wanted us to reconcile and he told them we broke up because "I was jealous of other women.
Whatever makes you feel better. I told the network that I'd never be back and told them their real story Too many flags to keep count. Lol Thanks for letting us share stories!! Brenton's short anecdote is very confusing until you arrive at the word "Ambien.
It was the second time she invited me over. I got to her building within 20 minutes.
I texted her that I was there. I called her 3 times. Our sincere apologies to any readers whose stories did not make the list: So enjoy the following: Sylvia married a hustler who couldn't stop hustling. I was married to and financially supported my husband for 9 years so he could follow his dream of becoming a professional musician. We're both single now.
Love is in the hair. I met my ex at the barber shop I worked at. He became my client and we eventually started dating. Fast forward 8 months and he breaks up with me out of the blue through a text— douche bag thing 1. After an awkward haircut including shampoo and massage, I walk him to the counter to check out he still expected a free hair cut as if we were dating — douche bag thing 3. He was not in fact he never got me off once something I never told a soul even after the messy break up.
Because I'm not a douche bag. Tinder can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. My ex and I did the deed very unsatisfactory if I may add! He wasn't hiding it either, he had his phone out and I could clearly see the app being used. He didn't understand why I was mad because he said and I quote "it wasn't a big deal. Maggie's ex drove her crazy. He drove a Subaru. When your ex steals your idea He liked to go out drinking and partying with his ex, and finally admitted he was cheating on me with her. We worked things out and he went away for work, I drove 8 hours to visit, and 15 minutes into seeing him he admits to cheating with 3 other women, all on the same day!
We split and he knocked some girl up a few years later. They had their baby exactly 1 year after my husband and i had our daughter- to the day. The kicker, he named the baby boy the baby name I told him I was going to name my first born boy! Nicki likes a man with a plan. Just not this plan. I was in college and my boyfriend at the time was a student at the same school. We both lived with friends off campus. For a full semester, he didn't have a car for whatever reason, so I was picking him up at his house, dropping him off at campus for class, then picking him up at the end of his class and bringing him home, times per week.
If I had plans, I would rearrange them around his schedule so I could be there to pick him up and drop him off. Long after we broke up, I learned that he had dropped out of school as soon as the semester began or before for all I know and for nearly 6 months, he didn't tell me. This went on from the start to the end of the semester. He told me he was afraid I would judge him for dropping out, so instead, he orchestrated this charade for months that caused me to completely waste my time, energy, and gas mileage for someone who had no redeeming qualities other than the fact that he was working towards his own future and had the skills to be manipulative enough to carry on such an elaborate lie for so long.
He even carried a fake notebook and text book to "class". Gina's boyfriend had the best douche line of the list, easily. Upon catching him getting a blow-job from some girl at a party, he shrugged and said, "Like I'm gonna tell her to stop? Florence will clearly never forget this one. Hopefully she has screenshots. Here are 11 of the most insane stories. This guy wanted the relationship to move a little too fast for thelittleusername 's taste or any sane person's, really.
Painted my name all over his bedroom, bathroom and lounge room. Proposed and then Photoshopped us into wedding pictures, sent invites [to] all his family, mine and my friends, got an ultrasound photo online and tried to announce to Facebook we were expecting a baby, shaved our initials into his cat and left hundreds of love letters taped to my car So that was crazy We went on half a double date with friends, I was just being a good sport, noped out when he proposed when my food came.
The rest came over the next week. Edit to clarify as I feel I wasn't clear: This wasn't a 'we dated for months and then his crazy came out' this was 'we met an hour ago why are you proposing to me' Giphy 2.